Turning Around The Hopelessness In Teen Suicides

Turning Around the Hopelessness in Teen Suicides

Suicide is among the top ten leading causes of death and has no regard for age, sex, or ethnic background. Suicide is among the top three causes of death among the young population of today's society. As difficult as those statistics are suicide is among the top five causes of death among the pre-teens. Suicide is nothing to laugh at any age but the thought of someone so young with so much to live for is even less appealing. Teen suicide is getting worse every day all around the world. Many people ask why such youth would want to take their life for or what they possibly have to be stressed about. Many teens feel the pressure to be the best in grade, best in sports, and to be popular. These ideals can be very overwhelming and cause anxiety and stress. There are the teens that have been severely abused and neglected and are now seriously depressed. Teens that figure out they are gay and have to deal with the rejection of family and friends are at high risk too. Then there are those teens that suffer from a mental illness that has not been treated.

Teenagers and pre-teens have a very rough time trying to adjust their life from children to growing adults and the world sometimes is not all that forgiving. Teens are sometimes hardest on themselves and there are those who cannot handle the struggle and this is not the time in their lives when they are communicating with their parents so it is very difficult to see when they are moving into a dangerous state of mind. More than 50 percent of high school students have entertained the idea of suicide at one time or another. More than 5 percent admit to trying it at least once. This is a very real cry for help and should not ever be taken lightly especially if there is no communication in the home and your teenager does not have anywhere else they can go the next method of communicating to get someone's attention is through acting out. It is very important to talk with your teenagers and also watch them to see how they are acting. Don't be afraid to ask them how they feel and let them know that you are there for them when and if they want to talk. Some signs to watch for:

Personality changes

Trouble with friends (girl or boyfriend)

Becoming isolated and withdrawn

Schoolwork quality changed

Trouble concentrating

Choosing behavior that is contrary to how they are normally

If this is a daughter, is she pregnant

Has there been attempts to run away from home

Begin using drugs or alcohol

Physical complaints

Eating or sleeping patterns changed

If you remotely think your teenager may be considering harming themselves in any way, talk to them, talk to someone but do not stay silent. Many times your teenager will talk to someone else because they do not want to disappoint you. Make sure you know what is going on with your teen. Listen hard and don't judge them or get mad. Reassure them that no matter what you love them and want them to live. Offer to get them help and stay with them through the crisis. If you need to call your local crisis hot line or emergency number and have your child placed in protective care so they can hurt themselves. What ever you do don't pretend it isn't happening this could be the difference between life and death for your child. There are many good programs and medications available that can be of benefit. Early intervention and help can lead to a full recovery and happy life. Prove to your child or any child in your life that life is worth living. Tell them to not give up and help is coming. There is a brighter world out there and it has much to share. We as the adults need to be able to see the threats around us and help our teens survive these years of torment literally. Think about the future and don't let any teen become another statistic. Watch and listen to your children. It takes more than words to hear what really is going with them.