Body Language Magic (How To Read And Make Body Movements For Maximum

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Eye Signals:

Eyes are considered as one of the most important and delicate organs of the human body. They are described based on color of eyeballs, size of the eye etc, and work from receptors. At what time we describe a person's eyes we are generally talking about the person's pupils or gazing behaviors. Our pupils dilate and contract according to different light conditions, which changes in mood.

In order to absorb more light our pupils dilate in dim lights and contract in bright lights. In addition, at what time we are happy our pupils dilate and when we are angry, our pupils contract sharply. In India eyes are called kajal, which in our language means (cleaned carbon black). This is a cosmetic so to speak that is employed as a make-up for eyes by women to emphasize their eye display while going for courtship.

An old saying goes ‘Look a person in the eye when you talk to him'. Really eyes can say a lot about a person and his mood. Since long traders, businessmen, politicians, gamblers and even prostitutes have been using eye contact to reap benefits. And the only way to hide your emotions from others is by wearing sunglasses. Yet, while a person is wearing sunglasses you can still see more inside the person if you look closely.

Types of eye signals:

Eye signals can be of various types like the ‘business gaze', ‘social gaze', ‘intimate gaze'. But not only does your type of gaze but also the length of time for which you keep looking at a person matters a lot in eye to eye communications. While I must caution you that long gazes can put a person at ease as well as maybe tell him that you are not in a good mood. Those who steal gaze or do not look into the other person's eyes while conversing may be untrustworthy.

Before going into any kind of details of different types ‘gaze' I would like to discuss a little about ‘Pease's Triangle'. Pease is one of the most famous scholar in the field of understanding body language. According to him an imaginary triangle can be formed on everybody's forehead by joining the two pupils and the point between the two eyebrows. While talking if you keep your gaze directed at the Pease's triangle, you can create a serious atmosphere and the person can easily sense that you mean business. This type of gaze is called as ‘business gaze'.

If your gaze drops below this level, a kind of social atmosphere is created and more relaxed conversations can be done. This type of gaze is called as ‘social gaze'

When the gaze falls even lower than this level, say to the neck or chest or legs then it can be called as ‘intimate gaze'. This type of gaze is basically used to show interest in the other person. Of course this type of gaze is used for courtship between a male and a female. It seems all gazes have a name.

Apart from this sideways glance can also be used to communicate feelings. A sideways glance with raised eyebrows and a smile can termed as friendly while a sideways glance with furrowed eyebrows and a fiendish smile can most often express the opposite.

Disinterest can be expressed by closing the eyes for a couple of seconds while talking and laying your head backwards.

Well I hope this will help you analyze a person's gaze much better in future and also to communicate your feelings through your eyes.