Reading The Body Languages Through Magic Signals
Firstly, the body is no magical speaker. The body is a compartment or housing that stores circuits, cells, organs, blood, tendons, ligaments, nerves and so forth. The body will act out on spontaneous actions that come from the brain, nerves and the like. The body may act out in a different fashion that what the words are saying.
In other words if a person is tweaking his eyes while talking to you, it could very well mean that the person has a nervous disorder, or disease causing this action.
Many people are writing about body languages including myself. As I see all the writing on the marketplace however, it seems everyone has their own opinions, while few address the hardcore facts of the mind, brain, emotions, thoughts, words, body signals, and so forth.
Just because a person is standing with his hands cupped behind his back does not mean this person is frustrated, angry or apprehensive as some lead you to believe. Rather, military, men in authority, and people of analytic nature will use this gesture, especially if the person is deeply thinking. If a person is angry they often will throw out their chest while huffing harshly under their breath, or else approach you as a bully would approach a person. Some people will sit silently staring at you, or else avoiding eye contact, until you speak then they will shoot you a serious glare.
There is no one out there regardless of what they claim can read the body successfully, no more than they can define the languages of the body. Still, you can use the body to get a point across while verbally speaking out.
Sometimes you can even say all you want to say with the body. For example, if someone pisses you off you can use your middle finger, which nearly anyone will understand what you are saying. You can also use the finger and shake it as you point to let someone know they are in big trouble.
On the other hand, if a person is locking their ankles it doesn't always mean that the person is apprehensive. Some men will lock their angle to take weight off the feet. Heck, some women will even use this gesture to take weight off the feet. Some people use the gesture shifting as they speak, which doesn't necessarily mean the person is anxious.
Let's see where your reading body languages level rests. Ok, I am walking into the room in a quick fashion while holding my posture upright. What are you seeing or reading from my body? Some people would read it as, I am a confident person? Can you see this? The fact is I do briskly walk with my head at a level and my posture upright at most all times. Sure, I have a great level of confidence; however in some areas I lack confidence in myself. Now let's look at another similar situation.
This tall man walks briskly into the room. He has his physique posed in an upright position, his head is high and he is staring you in the eyes by glaring downward with his eyes. What do you see? You see a tall man firstly, which may intimidate you but as you watch his arrival you feel that this man is confident.
What do I see? I see a man sizing up the situation as he moves into the room. I see a man appearing to be control of his situation, yet preparing to defend if necessary, and I see a man that walks quickly because of the length of his legs. Now, what if I told you this man was a drug dealer, drug user, alcoholic, and crimester, would you still think he is confident?
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