Tearing Down Relationships

What tears down relationships? Various objects or mechanism will tear down a relationship. When a person cheats, a relationship will fall apart. When family members or friends violate the rights of mates relationships will fail. When a person disrespects a relationship and persists in disrespecting the mate a relationship may fall apart.

Emotions play a large part in relationships. When the emotions feel triggered and/or threatened a relationship will start to deteriorate. A strong relationship will know that problems will arise throughout any relationship, but it will take long-suffering to make the relationship work. Long-suffering individuals will have patients, which mean that the person will bear trials, suffering and pain without complaining. Therefore, we can see that communication makes a relationship work, since lack of communication leads to frustration.

What tears down a relationship? When two people engage in intimacy without learning what the other person needs, feels, thinks, and so forth, thus acting out of desire leads to tear down of relationships.

Love is the element necessitated to make any relationship work. Thus, love is defined in depth since it revolves around various aspects and meanings. In other words, love does not act out greedily, hatefully, egotistically, and in a jealous nature. Jealous is one of the leading causes that tear down relationships. Few men find it difficult to relate to a woman that makes more money than he does, while women find it difficult to accept that men (like women) give their attention to others. Unfortunately, men more so than women have a wandering eye and often makes the women feel inferior to other women. True love does not wander. If a person loves another person, the partner will not look at another person with lustful intents. Thus, to feel loved security and trust must exist; otherwise, a tear down will develop over time.

What tears down a relationship? Sometimes incidents and accidents will tear down a relationship. Over the years people have fallen victim to crime, or else endured physical impairments resulting from an accident. When the couple met each was intact, thus paralysis, or lack of physical movement in few areas of the body has lead to tear downs in relationships. We can see true love does not exist in these types of relationship, since desire is the ultimate reason that someone will leave their mate due to illness, or physical lacking.

Desire is the root of most teardowns in any relationship. Sometimes crimes may lead to tear down since a stalker may cause tremendous emotional attack that one partner breaks and decides he or she cannot take anymore. Relationships of the past may interfere with new relationships and cause a degree of interruptions that finally sometime gives. Again, true love does not exist, since true love will stand through all types of weather.

Thus, love consists of respect, love, trust, honesty, faithfulness, loyalty, long-suffering, consideration, sharing, giving, taking, et cetera. Few couples in relationships may complain that the mate is using them. Thus, they fail to realize that in any relationship using one or the other exists. Thus, the term “use” is an emotion trigger that presents a threat. Therefore, turning it around and saying we use each other in a relationship, giving and sharing is the ultimate outlook that will make the relationship work.

To love someone means that you will give your life over to protect him or her if necessary. A true love will fight and defend the mate to all lengths, including death. To give you an example of true love we can review Jesus’ history when he gave his life over to save all humankind from death. Jesus is the ultimate example of love that we are instructed to follow that determines if true love exists.

Love also consists of touch love. Sometimes when a mate fails, or makes a mistake loving discipline is necessary. Women never want to approach their husbands in an aggressive fashion, since he will only rebel. However, if the wife or mate addresses the issue with loving coaching the mate most likely will listen. Likewise, if a man treats his wife or mate in an unloving fashion, rebellious parenting will display itself in most instances.